Making AMERICA’s Roads Safer—One Small Act at a Time
Every year, too many lives are lost to drunk driving in America. The Bar Fairies are on a mission to change that by promoting sober driving choices, DUI prevention, and community safety.
What started as a small act of kindness—leaving coffee gift cards on cars left overnight at Flathead Valley, Montana bars—has grown into a nationwide movement advocating for stronger DUI laws and supporting families affected by drunk driving tragedies.
WHO WE ARE
The Bar Fairies was founded in memory of Bobby Dewbre, who lost his life to a repeat drunk driver. His family turned their grief into action, creating a grassroots movement dedicated to:
Encouraging responsible decisions after a night out
Advocating for stricter legislation to strengthen DUI accountability in Montana and across the country
Supporting and creating community with grieving families impacted by preventable drunk driving tragedies
Building a community of sober curiosity and safe transportation options
Through education, advocacy, and real action, The Bar Fairies are changing the culture around drinking and driving in Montana.
How We’re Making an Impact
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Coffee Card Initiative
Every weekend, our team of volunteers leave $5 coffee gift cards on cars left in bar parking lots overnight. This small token thanks individuals for making the responsible choice not to drive drunk.

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Grief Outreach & Support
Families who have lost loved ones to drunk driving deserve support. The Bar Fairies provide a platform to honor victims, share their stories, and advocate for change.

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Community Education & Events
From DUI awareness campaigns to partnering with local bars, we’re committed to changing the culture and providing resources for safe transportation.

Prevention
& Support
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Learn about the risks of impaired driving and how to make safe choices.
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Discover our favorite alcohol-free alternatives, mindful drinking habits, and community support.
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Find resources for families and individuals coping with the loss of a loved one due to impaired driving.
The Bar Fairies are dedicated to educating the community and providing support for those impacted by drunk driving. Explore our resources for DUI prevention, sober curiosity, and grief support.
GET INVOLVED
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Coffee Cards
Help distribute coffee cards, assist at events, or spread awareness.
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HONOR LOVED ONES
Add their name to our memorial cards and share their story.
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Sponsor & Partner
Businesses can support the mission through sponsorships, partnerships, or donations.
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Donate
Your support funds coffee cards, education, and advocacy efforts.
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Shop Our Store
Every purchase directly supports our mission.
Upcoming Events
& Community Initiatives
Stay informed on our latest community outreach, advocacy events, and DUI prevention efforts.
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LEt’s Make AMERICA Safer
Drunk driving is preventable. By taking small actions today, we can create a future where fewer families experience loss due to impaired driving.